Sisterhood,
So i met a friend back in Feb, we hit it off & she would contact me on a daily basis, i'd wake up every morning to her texts & we woukd go out every now & then. A few months later i reconnected with a guy i used to date back in 2013 & we caught up 6 weeks ago. I told this friend of mine that I had caught up with him again & she was like thats great.
I posted something on my FB page & the guy i had caught up with commented, in the meantime she had also commented on his comment (if that makes sense).
A couple of weeks later we were chatting & I said oh i just had a call from that guy again & he wants to catch up. She just freaked out. I go whats wrong, she said i slept with him last night & i dont appreciate him contacting you to catch up. I was shocked, i said what the? How quick did this happen, i only caught up with him two weeks ago, she said it wasnt the first time she slept with him. Apparently the comments on FB led them to chat in Private message which led them to catch up.
I had informed her that i was a little shocked that she did this as i had never encountered it before & she was so apologetic. I said my sisterhood knows not to step to anyones man & i couldnt believe what she had done. She advised that she was going to stop & tell him no more. I said she didnt have to do that, and it was okay, but moving forward to be mindful.
Fast forward to today, i have been blocked from bother their profiles & im a little shocked. Im not concerned about him, but very disappointed in her.
Im confused as hell on this. I even sent her a txt today saying that i have a gift for her daughter & when is she free to catch up.
Confused as hell. Did I say something wrong? Did she feel I was a threat? Please someone help me get my head around this.
Thanks in advance.
7 Replies
She isn't worth your confusion. She sounds like a very unhealthy person to have as a friend. It was a lucky escape for you.
I had a friend crack on to my sisters date at my birthday party. It wasn't innocent it was extremely overt. Id asked her quietly to not do that while my sister was standing right there, she continued, no longer my friend, or someone I'd trust.
She doesnt sound like a good friend. She probally feels threatened by you and your closness to this guy. And lets fast it the guy doesnt sound that much better, i would leave them to it.
Bullet dodged!!!
Agree!
Lol she cut your grass and she knows it! She's 'competing' to keep the man she thinks she stole. Cut her loose and right away, she's already expecting it, she's LOW.
Can't believe she actually said she'd appreciate if you wouldn't catch up with him again. He wanted to, that's the funny bit, and she knows it.
Haha totally agree. Ah well if it wasnt the friend she cut loose, he'll go elsewhere & this time she wont know it. Get rid of her. Thats no friend to be around.
Wow , she has some form. Please don't go back there, they are both toxic and very deceptive . Put your time and loving personality into people that deserve you . What a sneaky piece of work they both are