Hi ladies. This is my 2nd pregnancy, we found out the sex first time round. This time I don’t want to but hubby still does.
Has anyone done this & how did it go??
I don’t think hubby would deliberately tell me. We have talked about it & I have stressed that he needs to be careful not to give it away i.e. show more interest in finding a girls name instead of a boys name.. I suppose some may say it depends on hubby & I and our ability to keep the secret/not look for signs but just after some stories from those that have done it!
TIA x
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Im going to say,i think if you do this youll need to resign yourself to the fact that youll probably catch on to his bias and just accept that and not hold it against him and make it a huge issue.
Fingers crossed you get a surprise and also, we decided to find out but then she crossed her legs and wouldnt show us anyway, so you just might have that happen and solve the problem for you.
We were the same. I realised that hubby wanted to know to be prepared and that was useless if he couldn't talk to me about it. So we both found out.
I think he will let slip eventually. You would obviously know him pretty well and will know when he's just looking at names for the sake of it, or looking at baby clothes just to keep you off track. You will work it out just from his behaviour even if he doesn't mean to tell you. I think you both need to do one or the other.