Am i weird?
Ok so i have an awkward question..
i am young, 22 and i am in a long term relationship,
When it comes to sex i dont like slow, romantic ect cos to be honest i cant feel much, i have not slept around and i know my partner is fine in size and performance..
I enjoy it rough and dirty everytime.
I watch porn when my partner is out and its always hardcore gangbang ect...
am i like some crazy person who cant make love?
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I'm EXACTLY THE SAME! And I'm 42 and been always this way. You are not weird and you have no idea how happy your question makes me feel, I never had courage to ask this but now I don't feel alone! You go girl and as long as you and your partner enjoy it it's all fine (my husband loves the fact that he can initiate anything anytime and we don't waste time with romantic foreplay lol)
When you watch porn you become desensitised to other forms of sex. It's kind of like someone starting with marijuana and then graduating to harder drugs as the marihuana doesn't do it for them anymore.
Now if you and your partner are happy with your sex lives then it's not a problem. But I suspect because you are writing this you aren't really happy.
So if you want to change it change it. A psychologist could help you work on this. Explore the issues and help create change. But it would take some time, and going without the porn to get there.
Really... On the whole drugs thing... Really?... Maybe she just likes it rough and wants to no she isn't weird for liking it? I for one love the rough stuff and it turns me on. There is nothing wrong with it.
I'm 21 and very much the same lol.
"Making love" is just too boring!!
Although I can honestly say with my now partner I am more than happy with it being slow, because he usually finds another way to make it really hot and nasty! Sometimes I think 50 shades of grey bought out the naughty side in both of us lol!
I am the same. I like to be choked so may be a bit more extreme. I like to be thrown around. Hubby is more sensual and has only done this maybe 5 times in 12 years. I have been with him since high school and its not his thing. He loves foreplay and the lead up on me. Which is ideal for most but I like it wham bam thank you mam. We are all different:)
You are not weird.. I am the same..
Oh and to add to my other post I didn't watch porn nor did I have time for tv/movies/net to be more into this style of sex. Rough bondage type stuff.
I'm 25 and love it rough, choking, hardcore, spanking, tied up. Everyone is turned on by different things, and there is nothing crazy or wrong with u for liking it hard and rough. Making love is how u interpret it, some like it slow and sensual others like being hog tied and gagged. As long as ur with someone u love/trust then go for gold, do what feels good ;)
Completely normal- I will only really watch gangbang porn. Although I don't mind slow sex I would probly say I prefer hard sex and with him in most of the control. Normal is relative. It's fine- don't per think it you have a sexual preference so you're normal :p
Oh and iv always had that preference an iv only watched porn for the first time a year ago.
Iv been having sex since I was 21 (9yrs ago)and always preferred harder faster sex.
Nope, definitely not weird. I've slowed down in my old age, but at 22 I was the same!
I also love the feeling of a hand on my throat, a good spanking and rough sex. Don't worry about what others are doing - do what makes you feel good.
Your not weird ... I love it rough, dirty and hard
... And I love porn too... If it's not hurting any one... Bonk away baby...