Partners ex ....
Ok a little back ground been with my partner for almost 7 years he had 4 children with his ex when we got together since then we have had two together with one on the way. Now has done nothing but start problem after problem its been issue after issue with her.
So now the latest drama its there older sons birthday in just under 2 weeks time. She sent a text a few weeks ago asking if we could go down next weekend to take kids to there local show that is on. He never told her or kids anymore about it since then our cat has broken down n we are carless atm ive been told by dr im not to travel. She lives 6 hrs away from us. Last night she rings ask him if his comeing down he tells her no n explains why so she offers to help pay for things n tells him to just get a train down there. Mind you we dont have train lines where we live n its 2 bus trips n a train to just get us to a train that will get us to her. Anyways after saying no over n over she told him to come alone n spend weekend at her house alone with her n kids he told her no as it would become an major issue with me n him. She cant seem to understand why n is telling kids im stopping him going n so on. Anyways after a full day of text off her ive spoken to him n he dont want to go as its nothing major n we see kids in 2 weeks anyways. And ive only got 6 weeks till our baby is due.
So my question is would any of you go ahead n let your partner go n stay with there ex who has said a few times she would love to sleep with him n have another baby together....
Sorry its so long
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I don't think it's a matter of let. But I he wouldn't be coming home if he did do it! Lol it would be different if he could afford to stay in a hotel, but she sounds like she is a trouble maker so even if you trust your partner I wouldn't be happy if he put himself in temptations way!
Yes thank you im the poster n thats how I feel also n he also feels being 6 hrs away with no car if anything was to happen I was to go into labour he wouldnt get back get here in time.
No way.
The ex sounds like she's trying to cause trouble between your relationship and her saying she wants to have another child with him shows she can't let go she's Probably very jealous of you having a baby with him due very shortly. I wouldn't be happy with my partner staying over night with an ex.
Thank you all of you for your comments its help me see im not the only woman out there Who thinks its not right
I don't trust my x's partner with a 100 foot clown pole - no no and did I say FUCK NO