So a weird one- I'm a single mum and share 50/50. When I don't have my kids I like to drink and have a few wines. I live in a big apartment complex so I drink on my balcony. Sometimes I stay to feel a bit 'sexy' ( I'm not perfect - body wise) I kinda get a bit daring and wear knickers and sexy bras on my balcony hoping others will see! Sometimes even nothing! I don't know if anyone has fully seen me but it really turns me on. Sometimes I even take the bin down wearing nothing but a see thru white singlet and a really short skirt no undies hoping to cross paths with people.... Is this totally risky??? I am in no means a slut or wear revealing stuff usually. Is this ok? Normal? Gah! It really turns me on!!
Am I being too risky!?
Am I being too risky!?
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This is not ok. It's not safe, and you could actually he charged by the police if other people's children see you walking around like that.
You could also find yourself evicted from your complex if other tenants and owners start to make complaints.
This is a very close line to flashing, if a man was doing it you'd have been well and truly arrested.
You need to find a new safer way to express yourself sexually that isn't including the general public. Think about it, you haven't gained consent from them In order to include them in this game. Start researching sex clubs etc
The only thing I can say and it's a bit mumsy sorry, but it's a bit dangerous getting drunk and going out getting sexy. Are you drunk enough to bring someone back inside your place?
What if some creep takes it as an invitation and follows you back up or sees you on your balcony and comes knocking.
Just something to think about there's a lot of weirdos out there and you're including the place where you and your kids live.
Have you thought about camming? Sounds like you are a bit of an exhibitionist and a webcam is a safe way to explore this side. Nothing wrong with what you are doing but you need a better and safer avenue.