Hi ladies 😊 my older sister has asked me to be present during the labor/birth of her first baby as our mum passed away a few yrs ago. I had my son at 19 and can't remember much of my labor...just wanting some advice and tips from you lovely mummies about how I will be best to help and support her...what helped you during birth (besides drugs LOL)
TIA xox
Supporting sister's labor
Supporting sister's labor
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How beautiful!
I'm sure your presence alone is all she needs!
I know I would have appreciated help post delivery, for example you could make sure she has something decent to eat and drink, help her have a shower afterwards (I remember feeling really weak and lightheaded as I was sent off to shower, lack of food probably didn't help that), pass baby to her when need be so she doesn't have to keep getting up and down (not kind on a sore and swollen hoo ha 😂😂).
Pretty much you just need to keep her company, help her get to the bathroom and get her anything she needs. She will be mentally going through most of it alone your jobs just to make sure it's as comfortable as possible :) tip don't look down stairs after birth 😂 My sister accidentally saw the bloody mess while I was waiting to be stitched
Focus on her. The whole time.
Know what she wants ahead of time.
Be prepared with music, oils, snacks/drinks (more for your sustenance), have a change of clothes incase you're needed in the shower or bath.
Just be present, watching, listening, rubbing, encouraging, loving, laughing (if she's having a good time on the gas) oh and be prepared for her to be angry and bossy. Take photos and video if she requires.
Enjoy, it is such a magical experience.