feeling lost and used.

Anonymous

feeling lost and used.

I have a few kids by a few i mean a lot i look after them all and do what ever it takes to make sure they have everything they need but i get no help or respect from them or there dad my husband and i have had it. I make sure all there needs are met but still nothing my older kids think they are badly done by my younger kids are saying i am always cranky and dont want to do fun things. My husband has his own issues and i am tired and feeling like i am slipping back into depression i dont know what to do anymore i have lost me. I dont do anything for myself due to making sure all my kids are looked after and their needs are being met. I dont know what i want anymore i just need to know i am not alone

Posted in:  Mental Health, Post Natal Depression, Anxiety & Depression, Behaviour

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Anonymous

I'll let you in on a secret. Kids don't get it, they never get it until they are parents themselves.
In the meantime stop and take some time for yourself. Go do something for you, wether that's a bath, or a walk around the block or give yourself a facial. What ever it is, do it.
We all need to fill our cup back up, other wise we have nothing to give our kids to drink.

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Anonymous

Respect is taught and Daddy is teaching them how to treat you. Kids push boundaries but your fully grown adult husband should show you respect 100% of the time. You deserve to be shown respect and appreciation especially in your own home.

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Anonymous

At bed time we do a little game where we tell each other 3 things we like about ourselves and three things we like about each other. It was a self-confidence thing for my daughter but I found it was a two way thing. A positive I got once was "I like that you burnt dinner (I am a below average cook) because we got to have breakfast for dinner" I was actually really quite upset about it and to hear that spin on it was such a relief.

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