how do i deal with not being pregnant this month? i was all set to test Thursday as i am late but have woken with what i can only assume is my period, i am so upset i really thought this month i was pregnant, i know there is always a chance to not be pregnant but it seems to have hit me harder this month, and ladies i would love your tips of trying to concieve a boy this time around x
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I fell with my first the first month off contraception. We had swine flu and were sick the whole month so we did it on my birthday and that's it. Second bub took 10 months. On month 10, hubby was recovering from surgery so we tried once, he didn't finish due to pain and we figured we would resume once he was better. Pregnant from pre cum after 9 previous months of regular sex. You literally can't control it. My only advice is don't let your hubby see your stress or he could get performance anxiety. Hang in there... It's a shitty time xx
Could it be implant bleeding?
I doubt it I use a cup and it was a quarter of the way full for the day
No tips on conceiving a boy, that’s all on your husbands sperm you have no control over that. Waking up and realising your not pregnant when trying or wanting to conceive is hard. The fact you are trying to gender select in an impossible way makes me go hmm. What would you do if you fell pregnant with a girl? Abort? In Australia it’s illegal to gender select using medicine/ivf which would be the only way you could guarantee you would fall pregnant with a boy. Good Luck.
You have a 50/50 chance of a boy
Be happy with what you get
Some people can’t have children
Hugs, hope you get better news next month ❤️
Timing- sex at time of ovulation will increase the chance of a boy but not fool proof. I had implantation bleeding with all 3 of mine- first 2: 2-3 days after sex (both girls) 3rd: the next morning (boy)
It’s hard to not be pregnant when you want to be- your feelings are valid. Some people can’t have babies and that’s very sad- but their problem not yours. Don’t let anyone tell you you should be happy with what you get ‘just because others can’t..’
Enjoy practicing! That’s the fun bit 😊
Sex Right on/around ovulation , I've had 2 boys. (It's still a 50/50 chance though).
I know it's easier said than done, but stop thinking about a baby. Just have unprotected sex because it's fun.
Focus on being the best mum to your daughter, the best partner to your husband. Remove the stress from your life.
The amount of times people get pregnant after they stop putting pressure on themselves and stop trying, is astounding.