Hi ladies,
Need some advice. My 13 year old daughter is putting me through HELL. She currently is seeing a psychologist and has started Lovan for suicidal thoughts but she has now started telling us that she wants to kill us all. She has 2 younger siblings and I’m scared for them. Currently, she’s staying with G-ma because I just need a break from her. Have previously taken her to the hospital but they didn’t do anything.
I don’t know where to turn or what to do. She has broken me. I know she has an underlining issue, most likely inherited from her dad who passed away and my goal this year was to get a full assessment done and training on how to best handle her when she has meltdowns. It doesn’t matter what I do, my daughter just doesn’t cope with any rewards or punishments I give her, it’s like there is no emotion. I need help, to help her. I’m at my wits end.
Please no nasty comments, this is so upsetting for me.
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Get her to a psychiatrist ASAP, this is way more serious than Lovan is going to be any help for. Psychologist is good but sometimes you need to bring in the medical side.
I assume you’ve contacted headspace? They should also be able to help. If you are on Facebook have a look at https://m.facebook.com/thestruggleisrealfightforsteph/
you’ll have to go back a little to read her story but her mum Emma is fantastic and she may be able to point you in the right direction as she has walked this round.
Sending you big hugs mumma. As someone who has suffered from mental health issues for more then half my life, I can tell you that there is nothing more frightning then losing control of your mind so my heart goes out to your daughter. It sounds like your daughter needs an overhaul of her therapy and medication asap. You may need to take her to hospital as these feelings she has may become overwhelming and may be a side effect of her medication. It takes time as I have only in the last few years found the right meds for me, however still have some adverse side effects. Am so glad that she has you in her corner fighting for her. Sending you love
buy charcoal. buy sulphur. burn the sulphur on the charcoal around her. She could have low vibrational entities in the drivers seat. Or she could have a personality disorder which can show up in PET brain scans. So sorry to hear you are going through this. Sending love and strength.
Psychiatrist