I don't understand how my ex-husband can move on and play happy families with another woman and her children yet he is turning his back on his own biological children?
He even offered to see our children less so he could spend more time with her and her children.
I feel disgusted that I had children with such a spineless, horrible man and sad that my children will never be a priority to him.
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Happens all the time. Hopefully the new lady will see through it but if she doesn’t you can thank her for taking that piece of shit off your hands.
This happened to my kids too but he's gone on to have more kids, one to the last woman and now 2 to the next. Doesn't give a crap about any of his kids. It made me angry and frustrated for my kids at first, I even begged him to see them, even for Christmas. Didn't take long for me to realise that even though my kids were hurt they are much better off without him in their life. They are late teens now and great kids. He has nobody to blame but himself that they want nothing to do with him now.
Make sure CSA is updated if he has the kids less
He won’t be happy families for long. If he can’t be with his own family, he certainly won’t be with another. Sit back, wait and watch it will all come undone. At the moment it’s all to win her over and fit with his story he would have told her. She would be think he is amazing so it must be true. The charade won’t go on forever. Be patient
My dad was always a far better father his step daughter than he was to us, his biological children. I barely have anything to do with him anymore.
My mum was by no means a great parent herself and my relationship with her is also pretty non existent but one thing I don't blame her for is my dad's inadequacy.
So I urge you to stop beating yourself up, you're not responsible for his choices and the kids will be just fine without him. He on the other hand will likely end up a lonely old man (a lesson my parents are learning now that it's too late).
My dad does this with his grandchildren - no time for his bio ones. Out in the world making memories with his step grandchildren.
His loss though.
It’s prob easier fir your ex as he is under no pressure to discipline the stepchildren so it can just be fun
These are the Dads that tell everyone their ex won't let them see their kids so save all your texts etc to show your kids when they're older in case they try and tell them you were the one that stopped him seeing them.
He's a POS. Your kids will be better without this scumbag.
How are women attracted to men who ditch their own kids?!