I have had a termination.
I haven't had my period again after.
Just checked I'm pregnant.
I am an IDIOT.
I had a medical termination. I was still spotting.... has anyone ever been through this before?
I can't have another termination. I don't want to go through that again and have it on my conscious.
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Are you sure your hormones aren't high in hCG and giving you a positive result? I'm not sure how it all works, but I'm wondering if that's what it is.
Why would you continue having unprotected sex? Pregnancy is a direct result of unprotected sex.
Don’t rely on the male to bring the condoms, you need to take responsibility too. If he wont wrap it, then he doesn’t get to have sex with you.
Get a proper test from your dr.
Aren't you a precious, knowledgable, bitchy Karen.
Grow up and don't be a sarcastic, bitter, twisted old woman with an axe to grind.
Have you been to the Dr? Go and get checked out to confirm you are pregnant or just still have hormones.
There really is no limit to how many you 'should' have. A termination is better than an unwanted pregnancy - the impacts of that on your life is likely really poor outcomes, and long term.
See a dr, and see a dr or counsellor for yourself, you're not just an idiot. There's something going on that you'd do that again immediately. Either abuse, coercion, seriously low self esteem, or lack of forethought.
Were you checked afterwards? You could still be pregnant from the first?
I would go to the dr. I have had a miscarriage and it showed positive on a HPT shortly after which sadly gave me hope that I wasn't actually miscarrying when I was.
Thanks for the comments and help.
I was checked last Tuesday 3 weeks post medical termination and everything was clear.
I have 2 kids that are 15 months apart. I do want more kids in the future. This was just the wrong timing. Moving, one child not 100%, work insane, not feeling great etc.
Hubby and I haven't been intimate the whole time since finding out the 1st time - 6 / 7 weeks.
Had a Christmas party. Got drunk. Did withdrawal whilst still spotting so thought ok.
Hoping maybe your right, and the tests are still just showing left over hormones. And not just 1 week pregnant as 1 test said.
It can take a while for hormones to go back to normal especially if levels were high to start with.
Good luck op, hope everything turns out okay xxx
Hey OP. I'd make a trip to your doctor and get on some birth control after you figure it out. The withdrawal method is risky. Good luck xx
You really need to see a GP and have this all explained to you.
Even though you're spotting and have taken a pregnancy test, doesn't mean you're pregnant. Hcg stays in the blood after a termination for days... it just begins falling. So a series of blood tests will show the hcg count and confirm that.
A scan should also be done to see if there's a heartbeat. If there is, I would get a surgical termination.
I had this happen to me and now have baby number 3 because of it, goodluck it’s so hard