Always the outcast. Why?

Anonymous

Always the outcast. Why?

Always the outcast. At school, at work, in the family. Everywhere. Always. I wish I knew why. So broken hearted

Posted in:  Life Lessons, Self Care

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Anonymous

Are you neurodiverse? You might just need to find your own people

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Anonymous

Look up myer-briggs (MTBI), it will change your life.
I don't think we all fit perfectly into 16 personality boxes and don't take it as gospel, but it sure explains a lot.
You're probably some type of introvert/intuitive.
Start cherishing your uniqueness, gold is rare and very expensive!!!
Also agree ND may be a possibility, see if you tick any boxes.

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Anonymous

Yes I don't fit anywhere either. Im the person who gets along with everyone but is never part of the club. I am very self-aware and find that my values just differ a little from others. It makes it awkward. I do not like or engage in the drama at work that alot of other women for some reason, seem to enjoy. It also means that they get annoyed with my fence sitting because I do not want to get involved in the 'pick a side' schoolyard antics that still go on in the workplace.

As for friends. I have a couple of close friends from my school days, we call each other randomly and I avoid the rest who I would call associates as they are too extroverted for me. I do not want to party.

Family.. they all have their favourites and they tend to forget I exist at times. I've tried and given up again.

Sometimes it's lonely but it's also nice to know I can read a book or do things I enjoy doing without that pressure to go out. I'm a massive introvert

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