Having intermit issues with my partner, e.g can't stay up or stay in the mood in the middle of having sex etc i went away one weekend for the weekend to my parents with our kids, came home our youngest was playing with he's phone, child 2 year old( child didnt see pictures) Child got into a file where i seen sexting messages to a porn professional who lives over seas, knew about the basics of mine and hes relationship but still continued in the sexual conversation with my partner, my partner got off on it. He didn't see it as cheating, he said he just needed to sexual aid to get him off. We both love eachother very much. But it broke my heart. Couple months on and he sees it as cheating now cause of how i have explained the pain and hurt it had cuase more so our in the bedroom issues and him going to a different outlet to get off when I'm only a text away. Note I don't do sexting with him never have done. I'm a very conservative person when it comes to my own sexuality, have meds that takes my limbdo away. He has a very high limbdo
We have 3 children together, been together for over 14 years. I needed to tell someone else besides talking to my partner. You ladies may have advice. I want to stay with my partner, I have some questions for anyone who has been through similar and stayed.
How do you overcome this?
What helped gain your trust?
We talk always openly about this situation, but my confidence is broken when we try to be physically interment.
I'm an over thinker to, please be mindful if you reply please.
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Something doesn't add up, he has a high libido, but can't stay hard during sex?
How does that work?
You can't fix this until you address the underlying problem.
Maybe if you are rejecting him all the time, he resents you which has made him lose attraction etc. or ED?