My boss is sleeping with one of my colleagues. Both my boss and colleague are married with children. Before he moved to our department he had an affair with another woman which was the reason he was moved to our area. My question is do I report this? Or let it go? I just think its wrong.......
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I wouldn't report it. I just wouldn't see it as any of my business wrong or not.
Is it impacting on your work? Is It likely to? If so, report it (as long as you can be sure it won't come back to bite you). If not, stay out of it. Hopefully Karma will take care of them.
Up to you. As said above, does it affect you? I know it would upset me. And would affect me having to deal with that disgusting rubbish every day... I'm assuming they're not discreet seeing as you know about it already. They have no right to bring that into the workplace, whether a legit relationship or an affair, but an affair is so much ickier to have to be around and Be witness to.
What 2 people do in their time is none of your business, does it affect you directly? Are you friends with either of their significant others. Does it cause issues to your job? If all of the above answers are no then no don't report it. It may be immoral but it's nothing to do with you.
Stay out of it, it's got nothing to do with you.
My guess (correct me if I'm wrong) that is impacting your time at work because you see it as morally wrong and you are uncomfortable with that? That can be a huge stress on you and impact your job! Report them if you feel any discomfort! You have no reason to protect two people who are being jerks and making the work place a difficult place to be! If it doesn't end well for them then that is their problem not yours! X