Hi sisters,
Mother's day is coming up and frankly I'm dreading the day. Not because of the kids... what they give is lovely and I'm always spoilt.
My issue is that it rem~ds me of my mum. We haven't spoken for 3 years now due to control issues and emotional abuse issues. I cant help but grieve the mother I feel I never had.
Anyone else in the same situation?
Mother's day with out mum
Mother's day with out mum
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Life Lessons, Mental Health, Self Care, Loss & Grief
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I am not in the same situation. Rather in a very different one with my mum, she was my rock, my closest and best friend, but she passed away and I miss her so deeply. But I have been in a very similar spot with my dad, I didn't speak to him for 10 years, I actually just spoke to him on the phone for an hour before though. SO, what I would suggest, set some rules, tell her how you feel, and build a relationship, because life is too short and it can work. If you want, you can look me up and message me if you want advice :) good luck x