need advice

Sorry for long post, not really sure what I'm asking :/

Everyone keeps asking me if I'm pregnant and I don't know why, I've lost a lot of weight ( like I did in my last two pregnancys) but I know I'm not pregnant I have Pnd and anxiety from my last two and me and my husband have both decided to put off on have a 3rd for at least another 3 years so we can work on raising our two sons and get my health back in order (I have the bar implant thing in my arm and I make him use condoms as well)

Its mainly my mil our sons adopted grandfather and a couple other good friends

Its getting extremely frustrating and lately I'm snapping at everyone for it