Stalked through this page! I post some pretty personal things on this page venting about my life my babies and my DV psychopath ex is on the page. And he has tried to use some of these posts against me with friends and even the law. There is no proof it is me but I don't feel safe on here any more sadly and just wanted to warn any one else out there xx
Being stalked through IM
Being stalked through IM
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Mental Health, Self Care, Sisterhood Stories, Health & Wellbeing, Behaviour
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I've been stalked on here too.
I don't care though.
If I want to vent I will.
I've discussed everything from blow jobs to things my kids do to piss me off.
The stalker likes to take screenshots.
Screenshot away.
I hope you're ok hun xx
Thats so unfair and seems the only point would be to intimidate and stress you as youre anonymous here. You could change some facts, specify a different part of the country, change kids genders ages etc. Just paint a slightly different picture to get rid of him. If this page helps you dont let him scare you off its what they do.
And check he doesnt have your fb password if you login that way.
Yep I feel you. I am pretty sure my ex husband is either on this page too or at least gets on to read what is written to see if it's me writing it. I used his phone to Google something and this page was his last thing Googled. Its definitely not a nice feeling but I don't let it bother me. He can't prove it's me.
I was worried about things like this happening to me. But then I've seen posts that could have been written by me because the details are exactly the same ages and genders and such and such. Just make sure anything isn't in so much detail that it really makes it obviously you. Change it up a bit.
Yep, my ex used to do the same! He used to copy/paste and text things to me. Posts and comments that I'd made. I have posted a warning on here myself warning others. You're an adult and can post anything you want - especially if it's anonymous. Just tell him to get a life.
I've been stalked by my ex too, though it was a long time ago. Interestingly, I've been stalked by my partner's ex on here.
She takes screenshots of comments I've made and sends them to my partner saying it's not my business to talk about certain subjects. Ummmm, it's anonymous.... I'm allowed to talk about whatever the hell I want.
I tested my stalking theory out. I wrote a post on here inferring I had cheated on my partner. I put things in that she would only know if she had been looking at public content on my fb page to figure out it was me. (I deleted it after a short time). She sent a screenshot of it to my partner. I wasn't surprised and it confirmed the stalking.
It's really unsettling knowing someone goes out of their way to check up on you.
You know I should be flattered but I'm not.
Why do they do it? What do they want? Are they that miserable that they have to make other people miserable too?
When it stops I'll know she's truly happy.
I hope that day comes soon...
In the meantime you're entitled to vent. That's what this forum is for. It's better to vent here than on your own fb page? I think so.
As suggested just change some details in the posts.
He liked this page when i left him knowing i liked it and said i only liked be because i know and he knows im an imperfect mum haha. he is still a member. But one of my posts about being fed up with being a single mum and just not coping with it any more he tried to bring up in the family court to show i was done being a mum but that was just an in the moment feeling. i denied it was me of course. I feel so violated i cant even post my feelings anonymously with out him knowing!
Thanks ladies i love this page and i wont stop stick him!! I also have a bitchy family member who loves to copy the posts to me and goes is this you?? Then she went on to call me an attention seeker and to get a life. BITCH haha
Good god we all have days where we just can't cope! Easy for them to judge huh.
How are you attention seeking if you're venting on an anonymous forum lol.
Yea. Ok then.
You're right they really do need to get a life.