Anyone have any advice or insight..... my ex husband has been at our children to live with him. This has only come about since he found out I'm in a serious relationship and with someone who actually is a good role model. He's always in and out of their lives, always moving around (different states) and changing jobs. He's only just moved to another state and is talking up how much better it is and how much fun they'd have if they lived with him. They are starting to get to the age where they can have their say... he has said many times over the years about taking me to court etc etc. (he's emotionally abusive and I no longer talk over phone, everything is in text or email as per police advice)
So question is if the kids want to move and believe all the glitter and gold what happens? It would take me 2 flights to see them since it'd be in a different state plus car hire. I don't want them to go, but maybe this way they might realise that their father lives a lie.
Side note; I don't stop visits. It's nothing to do with paying child support.
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No. I wouldn't. If he was serious about being a good parent, he'd live close enough as to not disrupt their lives completely. As others have said, get court orders and send them for school holidays, then see how things go...