Being a parent is hard. Being a partner is hard, trying to stay on top of life is hard. I'm honestly so sick of trying to get ahead and ending up 10 steps back. After nearly two years of trying to find work and being unsuccessful, lots of long discussions my partner & I have decided to start a couples webcam as a way to spice things up and make a bit of money. We don't have any identifying tattoos and have decided to wear wigs or mask. My question is, we have no idea where to start! We have no one we could ask.
Just a bit of info. We are a young 24-27 year old healthy good looking couple who just want to have fun and make some money after a decade of being together.
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Just beware that once you enter that type of world you sometimes find it hard to get out. Make sure you continue doing it for fun and not for money. People can chat and request things of you and some of them are not nice or may make you uncomfortable. If you don't do it, you lose that "customer" and the money they were wanting to offer (tips). I personally couldn't do it because some of the things that go on and are said via the chat would be too much for me.
Have you ever watched or participated in camming? That's your starting point. You need to know what to expect. Start by participating on the other side, get ideas and go from there.
Are you exhibitionists? Do you enjoy public sex? And exchanging nude pictures etc? If you don't get excited about those things and you aren't going to 'spice' your relationship up by camming.
Honestly you don't sound excited by this. It's not the tone I got. You sound sad, like it's the next logical crap thing that's happening. If you aren't excited about it, don't do it.
You need to do some real research and have an understanding what you are looking to get out of this, what boundaries you will have and repercussions this may have on your relationship. Have a look at what others are doing/willing to do... Are you prepared to things/have things done to you by your partner at request of others online? I'm not at all a prude but sex in public/in front of others is a big step, no matter how "good looking" you are.
Honestly being good looking has nothing to do with this sort of thing. A lot of the most famous and well sought after porn stars are certainly not good looking (Ron Jeremy for example) so don't think that will instantly give you an advantage.
I don't think this is right for you. Judging from your post you don't sound keen at all and I think this will depress you. I would recommend getting into studying to increase your chances of finding work.
I'm sorry, but maybe you should try babysitting or something.
I've seen documentaries on this, and it's no way of living.
Have you tried supermarkets and Bunnings? They're always hiring.