Hi ladies
So I think this is more of a vent
So I have been with a guy for 3 years at first I never felt anything for him but by the end of the first few weeks together I was completely in love with him fast forward to last year he and I agreed that I would be the one to play soccer as he has health issues that stopped him from playing and in November we had a girls weekend away which I didn’t want to go on but he made me go on and now he has said that he doesn’t love me and has gone to his parents house and is staying there now he was the love of my life and he said I was his he also said he wanted to marry me and for me to be the mother of his kids he has been under stress because he has been helping out a neighbor with her backyard (she is old) and then he has had another neighbor at him because of the yards but he hasn’t had time to do them due to health reasons then he had this olderly neighbor ask for help.
I’m so lost with out him as I actually love him and I have a son from a previous relationship my son is autistic and also has adhd developmental delay and ha 16 p11.2 deletion syndrome I don’t know what to do now he was the love of my life he said he is leaving because he can’t handle everything around us and I have no family or any support around as the only one I had was my mother and she died coming up to 4 years ago and now I’m depressed and my anxiety is through the roof
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First of all I just wanted to say that I too have a child with 16p 11.2 deletion syndrome and an older son with Prader Willi Syndrome. Props to you for being a strong single mother, it can be very challenging and also rewarding. Sometimes people come into our lives for a reason and I believe they leave our lives for a reason too, whether its just not meant to be or a time of growth. Use this time to discover who you are and embrace your own company. I know it's hard to be alone sometimes but it can be nice too.
I don't understand how the soccer or gardening for old people come into it but sometimes realtionships just dont work out. You will be ok sweety! Get some counselling to help you grieve the end of the realtionship. Do you have friends you can lean on for support?