My husband and I have been trying to have another baby for 3 years now. I have never been to the drs to get checked to see if there is something wrong. Maybe cause I am worried that something is wrong from getting me pregnant.
My youngest is 5. And when I had her I was told my uterus is upside down. And a few years ago I had a high grade sin 3. And was told then that they could have a high chance in not falling pregnant.
We are at that age where it’s now or never. So I am seeing what everyone’s experiences are? How long did it take you to fall pregnant? Did you just give up trying and then fell pregnant? Did you go to the drs??
3 years trying to fall pregnant
3 years trying to fall pregnant
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Go to gp!
Go to gp!
Bloody hell, go to your GP, tell him you’ve been trying for 3 years and get a referral to a fertility specialist. I know what’s wrong with me. I saw a fertility specialist and 10 months later I had a baby via IVF.
To start with you need to go to your doctor to be referred to a specialist. Get your hormone levels checked and your hubby/partners sperm.
I had my first at 19 when I was on the pill. We started trying again for #2 when our son was 2. For many years nothing happened. Fast forward another 6 years, after we'd have invasive tests after test, our doctor suggested IVF. (Back then you had to go through certain things before being considered for IVF, unlike these days.) Tests showed we had less than 5% chance of falling pregnant through IVF & the doc actually said it was a miracle we had one baby already. My hubby and I are not a good match (fertility wise) for some reason. We left the specialist upset we could not have any more children, but decided we'd spoil the one we had. We bought a brand new car (something neither of us had ever done) and we went on a holiday where no expense was spared. We then came home to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary with a party and hubby asked me to renew our vows. Little did I know he'd organised the celebrant already who was standing in our house waiting for my response. Not 10 days later, my period was late. It had been late before but this time it felt different. I did a test. It was a faint positive. I did another at the doctors. It was definitely positive. I made my doctor cry.
Moral of this story is I have 2 miracles when I shouldn't have had any babies. My age gap between my son and daughter is 11 years. Keep trying but relax and don't think of it so much.
Good luck. x
Put your big girl pants on and go get checked out!
After having cin 3, and possibly an upside down uterus, I would be getting a referral to a gyno for a review and some tests. I had cin3 high grade, and after this took me 10 years to fall pregnant, we now have 11year old twins and a nearly 5 month old. Some times after serious issues it takes awhile to recover from. However after a year of actively trying with no success they can prescribe tablets etc to help.
Go to the fucking doctor!!!