Resilience building

Hey mums, does anyone know of any good books or material on building resilience in pre teen girls. My daughter has always been a bit sensitive but with the onset of puberty it’s gotten wild. She holds onto things people have said and will randomly get upset about it days or even weeks later. Her youngest brother cannot even look at her without him being called mean. The smallest criticism will make her feel like she has failed at life. We have tried to be encouraging, talking it thru with her, giving cuddles when needed and space when that is called for too. But this momma is at her wits end, today it was 10 minutes of crying because the tv hates her because it wouldn’t turn on in a blackout.