I'm not sure if this is going to make sense but I need to get it out.
My daughter will be 3 in a few months and her dad has nothing to do with her. He favourite person and more importantly her main male role model, her Poppy passed away just before Christmas. I am so hurt and angry for her that not only does her dad not want anything to do with her but that she also lost her Poppy as well. She still talks about him all the time and says she wants to do things with him and my heart honestly breaks for her.
I don't understand why is life so cruel and unfair. I want her to have a happy and good life but I have feel like I have already failed her already.
I don't really know the point to this post but I just need to get it out or something I don't know.
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Death is a natural part of life. Unfortunately every single one of us feels this anger, the why's, the what ifs.
You need to grieve and so does your daughter.
You haven't failed her at all, and you need to move away from the anger you feel at her biological father.
Do you have any males in your life who could be a role model for her? Brothers, uncles, male friends? If not. You are enough for your daughter. Don't ever think otherwise
Xxx