Hi IM's,
My partner have just found out we are expecting another little blessing early 2020 which we are over the moon about. (we both have 1 child each from our previous relationships)
Although we are still in the first trimester I have started to forward think about maternity leave and how much time I realistically will be able to take off from work. We have briefly spoken and have said 3-4 months will be the amount of time I will be able to spend with our lil one before heading back to full time work. I broke down in tears yesterday with the biggest feeling of mum guilt as my first pregnancy allowed me to be a SAHM for 12 months. I feel terrible this wont be the same this time round. Unfortunately we have a mortgage, ongoing utility bills and our 2 children to cater towards and alot has changed compared to my first pregnancy 8 years ago and this is why I wont be able to take 12 months off again.
We are a family that lives well within our means and we budget very well. I know there may be other factors to consider once bubs arrives (part time work, breastfeeding etc) however I wanted to ask if there are any IM's that may be able to possibly suggest other career paths or options for us to consider that may mean more time at home with our baby once he/she is born?
Thank you :)
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Every job has its compromises.
Working night so you are home during the day but your partner does the nights = less time with everyone.
Working from home = Working inefficiently while trying to care for a baby but doesn’t equal quality time with baby.
MLM= spending a lot of money and pretending your earning money while not earning anything.
There is no job that allows us more time at home other than a higher paid job (so we have more savings or are living further below out means). I think it’s smart to look at your budget, see what else can be cut back on now. See if you can put more savings away now.