Question about pregnancy.
Can someone be one month pregnant when they have only been with their bf for a month.
Asking for a male friend. His ex claims it is his child. But he isnt 100% sure. There was no unprotected sex in the first 2 weeks atleast. Neither did she have her period in those first 2 weeks.
Once pregnant dumped the man and refused to allow him any information regarding the pregnancy so he couldnt check how far along she was or dates of conception. She was with someone else the weeks prior to dating him.
She refuses to let him have contact or see the child. Then abuses him that he doesnt. He is getting this sorted but taking time to figure it out.
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Yes! Because one month pregnant is two weeks post ovulation
Just get a court ordered DNA test. It’s the only way to know for sure. Then if the baby is his he can fight for 50/50 care of his child. If it’s not, she can’t manipulate him to pay for a child that isn’t his. This women sounds crazy and toxic he needs to be on the front foot with this and be proactive.
My daughter is currently going thru this. Her babys dad has ordered DNA to be done through court. Even if the baby is his, her lawyer has stated that it could easily be 2 yrs before he gets 50/50 care, if not, even longer. Theze things take years to sort out in court..
Which is very unfair in the fathers side. He has to wait 2 plus years to be able to spend a decent amount of time with his child. How is that fair?
Just get a court ordered DNA test. It’s the only way to know for sure. Then if the baby is his he can fight for 50/50 care of his child. If it’s not, she can’t manipulate him to pay for a child that isn’t his. This women sounds crazy and toxic he needs to be on the front foot with this and be proactive.
Like another poster said, he needs to get a DNA test & do it through legal channels. He needs to be 100% sure, for his and the child's sake. Imagine the heartbreak of him and the child finding out he's not her dad after many years.
Regardless of any issues she's causing, he needs to know so he can organise contact or not be trapped into a cycle for child that isn't his.
Yes it’s possible, it’s worth the stress and money to get this sorted now so he can move on with his life one way or another.
The exact date of conception can be difficult to pin down during pregnancy anyway. Even with ultrasounds there is a window of error.
Yes but funny thing is if its his he has rights so why would she say it but deny access. He needs to sort it himself, do the test then go for custody arrangements. Do not rngage with her no good can come of denying it, if he had sex with her, its possible.
there is a lot of abuse in it. One minute its his but he isnt allowed to see him. Next minute she is saying he refused to have anything to do with the child so its his fault. But if he asks nope no visits, her partner is dad not him. Leave her alone. Even though she is the one who called him. He is working on it as well as working on himself after being in an abusive (physically) relationship previously. He finally has strength to sort it.
Look, it happened to my now husband - she came after him 6 weeks after a one night thing, he married the mum. He realised at the supposed 37 week mark (which was actually the 41 week mark when the obstetrician said she was overdue, it put him out of the running) He supported the child for 4 years until she cheated on him. Your friend needs a DNA test before he signs ANYTHING.
This is what he is worried about. She abuses him. Calls him names, saying he is a bad dad but then goes refusing access. He is worried because once pregnant she refused to let him have any sort of access or information on how far along she was. She could have been 6weeks pregnant putting him out of the time frame. But he doesnt know. He also is worried spending thousands and thousands going to court to be told ha ha tricked you he isnt yours.