I'm 32, a mother of 4 beautiful kids (12, 7, 2 and 8 month's)
I have zero sex drive at all. But it really doesn't bother me at all....
Not sure if it's age related or if there's something wrong with me, but I wonder if you can just be happy without it?
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Some people are very happy without sex. It might not be healthy for your partner though?
My sex drive took a dive the last couple of years (in my mid 40s). But I’m having symptoms of peri-menopause (skipping periods etc) and I experienced a sexual assault about the same time. I’m single so sex drive is not effecting a relationship.
I didn't have much of a sex drive when my kids were little. I think if you had a normal sex drive before you might just have to wait a few years before it all comes flooding back. Toddlers and babies are hard work and consume you not leaving much left.
You have 4 kids. And one is a baby. Do you also have a partner so the pressure for sex?
Being touched out is a real thing. Being fucking exhausted is real.
I was at the doctors getting tests even I thought I was broken. Youngest was 4 when things got completely back to it.
I have a sexless marriage because of my husbands health. It’s annoying but I live through it as he is a saint to me and my kids - every marriage / relationship has it’s price
I have a huge sex drive normally, like 2 or 3 times a day everyday, sometimes but a few years ago I had some health issues and went from being a nympho lol to nothing. I thing it just depends on what’s going on in your life. Maybe you are just burnt out from kids or work or stress?? Be kind to your self.