Hi guys, my partner and I have 3 children under 7 & just unexpectedly fell pregnant. & now I’m having feelings that I’ve never felt before, if it’s best for us as a family to have a forth child? Any advice would be helpful on how you make such a big decision. Thanks.
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The best thing I can tell you is once you’ve made the decision, and followed through with that decision (either way) don’t allow the ‘what if’s’ to creep in. If they start to creep in, remind yourself WHY you made the decision, and that you believe it to be the best decision.
That goes with for if you decide to have an abortion, adopt out or add another to your family.
When I got pregnant with my fourth I had no idea how I would cope. But I did, and he’s the most lovely little boy, 12 on Sunday. I’m so glad I didn’t let my husband talk me into something I’d regret.