My husband and I have a very rocking marriage for the last 4 years. Had marriage counselling, single counselling, split up for a period. You name it we have done it. The last 3/4 months my husband has come around and things have been really nice. Civil if we fight we talk about it. I don’t get talked down to anymore, I don’t have to explain everything for what I do. It’s been how I wanted it to be when we started fighting. But I just don’t feel anything there anymore. I don’t feel the love that I wanted to feel for him. We sleep together and there is just nothing there. It doesn’t feel right to sleep with him. I just don’t know how I can make myself fall in love with him again. It’s so hard, feels like the damage is already done.
Is there a way to fix this. Cause I’m to scared to leave him. I don’t know how to leave him.
Rocky marriage
Rocky marriage
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Start dating agian, be honest tell him how much you appreciate his effort and that you now need to get the spark back.
Go back to the basics, try to remember why you guys fell in love in the first place.
It's not going to be easy as someone who has been there and made it out the other side it is worth it. My husband and I went through similar rough patch several years ago did all the same things, we fought for each other and we got through.
Since then we have welcomed another child started a business and grown closer and stronger. We've not long ago celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary and are not far of celebrating 16 ,years together
If you both want it can and will work.
Goodluck