Hi Ladies,
I've just found in pregnant for the 3rd time and am shitting myself.
I lost a baby at 30 weeks in 2009, My second was born at 35 weeks. With both i developed Pre clampsia. My 2009 baby was still born due to the pre e. My second didnt develop until about 34 weeks..
My Partner will be a first time parent. He is very excited..Me on the other hand am very nervous.
My question is spose is do yous think its took high risk and did anyone have a full term baby after having pre e and a premmie baby
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You are going to have to seek specialist advice. From an obstetrician. Not a Facebook group. Make an appointment.
I think she knows that 🙄 seeking support on a page for others who have been through it is great idea to lift her spirits and offer positive advice.
A dear friend of mine had horrific pre eclampsia with baby 1. She almost died and had an emergency csection at 30 weeks - baby one is thriving now at 5.
Baby two and three she carried to term with no pre eclampsia.
Due to your history your doctors will be so on top of the risks and minor you more closely. Make sure you explain everything and book in over every concern.
I wish you well through this process!
You will be ok keep strong and positive. I had PE twice , third time nothing but I was booked in earlier for cesarean and monitored very closely. Try to enjoy this experience with him. Different father also, things may be different.
Firstly - Congratulations on your pregnancy.
Secondly - I am sorry for your loss ❤
Talk to your health care team, midwife or Ob and let them know your concerns and fears. You may also need to speak to a counsellor as you may have PTSD from your previous pregnancies and births.
Each pregnancy, birth and baby can be so different from the last and you may not even have PE or any complications. Your care team will be aware of your past but if not make sure you let them know
Good luck with what ever you decide