13 yr old daughter CONSTANTLY asking for Sleepovers with friends

13 yr old daughter CONSTANTLY asking for Sleepovers with friends

My 13 year old daughter is CONSTANTLY asking for sleepovers with her friends!!
It drives me crazy !!

Pretty much Every Weekend during school Term

** How many sleep overs a week is normal durning school holidays ? **

(I feel 3 to 4 nights a week is too much
😩). Am I being played or is this normal.. ?

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Anonymous

I agree, once a week at your house, and once a week at another house is PLENTY

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Anonymous

My 12 and 13 year olds don’t have sleep overs. I don’t allow it. You are being played. You are mum and you make the rules.

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Anonymous

that is way too much. Do you know what they do at the sleep overs and who they speak to online at these sleep overs. My daughter is 12 and had 3 sleep overs in her life and that’s last year. I’m not for sleep overs.

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Anonymous

I think it's different for everyone. I was the same at that age, if someone wasn't sleeping over ours I was sleeping over theirs. This was in the 90's though and that was very normal, for our school it was anyway. I dont see the problem with it.

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Anonymous

13 year old girls love their friends and love to be social…
. Well my daughter anyways. Pre covid we had friends staying for 3 nights in a row during school holidays, it was always the same kids which was easier.
Since covid max 2 nights, no school days.
I personally don’t see the issue. Maybe because the sleepovers were always at mine but I know and trust my daughters friends and their parents.

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Anonymous

Nope. Once or twice in a school holiday period. If I'm on holidays too

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Anonymous

During school term we don't have many sleep over but my 8 and 13 year old are with their dad every Saturday night. Come school holidays though we definitely make up for it and I allow most sleep overs however usually it's the kids stay here

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