Hi,
So this may be a little bit of a long one. I don’t really know why I’m posting. I guess just maybe some advice and a rant really.
Me and partner have a decent relationship we got engaged last year we don’t argue often and when we do we are pretty good at sorting it out.
However recently we are arguing a lot.
We have a little boy and recently everytime we argue he’s just awful the things he says to me and threatens to make my little boy away from me.
I suffer from PND and he hasn’t said it but has suggested that he would use that against me to take him.
I have tried talking to him, trying to resolve situations and see what’s wrong but he will not talk to me. And will just blame the whole thing on me.
I’m not sure what else to do but I feel like what happens now if something doesn’t go his way is he going to try take him.
I’m not sure what’s the point in this post but I just needed somewhere to vent.
If you got this fair thank you!
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Sounds like he wants to end the relationship but is hesitant (probably due to being comfortable and separations are usually messy and expensive).
Get your finances together, focus on your mental health and your child. Ignore him, do your thing and get yourself out of that relationship. If he isn’t willing to discuss his problems, then he is done.
Don’t let him damage you while you’re fragile.
Are you seeing a psychologist or otherwise treating your PND? As long as your PND is being managed appropriately, it’s an empty threat. A judge won’t take your child away from you for having PND. My ex threatened me with taking our boys away from me, but my psychologist and family lawyer both said he didn’t have a chance in hell of getting sole custody just because I had PND and was on antidepressants. Speak to your psychologist or get a mental health care plan if you don’t already have one. Sort your own thoughts and feelings out, then suggest to your partner that you want to try couples counseling to try and sort your relationship out.
Do you both have PND? Because it sounds like this behaviour is so sudden and recent, and out of character