Advice please. No idea how to deal with this.
Stepchild and my son both 13 recently purchased motorbikes. My son worked and saved and paid for all himself. Stepsons father paid for his.
Yesterday sons bike wouldn’t go so couldn’t use it.
Stepson said to my son “dad said to watch you with my fuel tank cause you’re the type of c$&t to put water in my fuel and now that’s happened to your fuel”.
My son was filming a Snapchat story at the time to send to his adult brother so I have it recorded.
I don’t know that my partner sabotaged my sons fuel but I am disappointed that either my partner said that about my son or that stwpson is causing trouble my lying like this.
How would you deal with this? Right now I want to kick them all out of my home and ask no questions
Sibling/relationship advice
Sibling/relationship advice
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9 Replies
Omg I’d be like you they’d be out
Then don't. You don't need to ask questions, you'll get lies anyway. Either your partner or your step son is treating your son like shit. I don't care which, get them both the fuck out of your kids safe place! This isn't cool. Anyone called my son a cunt would have their fucking teeth knocked out.
That kid lost me at c$&t - gross! Kick them out!!!! Stick up for your son!
Does it matter whether your partner or his kid said it?
The kid is spoilt. Your son purchased his bike on his own. He would be devastated.
If you want to save your relationship with your son, remove the problem.
I'd kick him out even if he was the bio brother. Being a step has nothing to do with it. Little fucking maggot.
I think the fact that it’s even a question that either your partner or his son may have sabotaged your sons bike is telling you the answer. Sounds like it’s time to move on from that relationship as I feel this is not the first time there has been an issue. Good Luck Mumma.
Unless the step son is known to be a liar I would be taking this as at least somewhat of the truth. Sounds like he said something along those lines.
Yeah, no F that. Both your partner and his son need to go. Your poor son doesn't deserve to be treated like this.
How are you going to trust that either of them didn't do something to your son bike and that it could be dangerous to your son life, then next time they decide to be spiteful
Absolutely this. You know that they need to go!!!!!! You dont need to give a reason, just that the relationship has run its course and come to an end and they have 2 weeks to move out. You need to create a safe home for your son as well as surround your son with people that have his best interest.
How would a 13 year old know that if you put water in the tank it won't run? I didn't even know that. But regardless of who said what. This is not right and they need to go. No man is worth this.