My ex has had an on and off girlfriend for over a year now.. they fight in front of our child and then he tells our child she won’t see that person again.. and then a week or 2 later it’s back on. Our child gets very upset every time this happens and I don’t believe it’s fair. Am I able to say I don’t want our child involved in that relationship?
And that he only pursue the relationship the weeks he doesn’t have our child?
At least until they are 100% they are committed and staying together.
Unhealthy relationship
Unhealthy relationship
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Nope, unfortunately. People like that are 100% committed and staying together lol
If I was you I would message him and say ‘x has been upset you said she won’t see y again, that’s a big thing for her to have to deal with, and now she’s confused that y is back. please think carefully about how you involve her in your relationships’
You can ask that there's no arguing in front of your child but the rest is none of your business.
You have every right yo bring it up, but be warned, they will likely tell to to f off.
A child shouldn't be introduced until you know it's a stable committed relationship. I refused to meet my step kids for a long time although my partner begged me
As a woman who has step kids and a not very good relationship with their mother I would sit down with the ex and express your concerns however I do believe it isn't your right to tell him when he can and cannot see this other woman. I've had it happen to me and my ex told his ex where to go.