Hiya , so my son who is 13 has taken to watching 'adult' vids online. I have spoken to him about how they are not realistic and the people in them are performing and that it's not a healthy way to learn about sex ect, now he stopped for awhile but I've noticed he is watching *orn again , now here is where I need help , I'm not apposed to him wanting to 'enjoy' himself but I don't want him watching non age appropriate p.vids . But I don't know where one would even suggest ? I mean back when I started being Interested it was just magazines ! Is there even such things ?
Please note I am not against adult movies at all I just don't want him to have a warped mind on what woman want and what is ok .
Sorry this is a bit all over the place but I'm just confused myself
Teenager & explicit vids
Teenager & explicit vids
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Can’t you set parent settings on your internet. I think that’s what you need to do, he’s just too young for everything adult and more concerningly, worse, that he could very easily find on the internet
How is he accessing this stuff? If my kids were watching that at this age , I’d cut the wifi off so they couldn’t. My kids don’t have phones but if they did , I’d also set strict settings on it with parental control.
I don’t know how but speak to a one of the antivirus companies to see what controls to put on.
I am not apposed to him wanting to seek out this stuff it is natural to be curious. imo he is at the appropriate age to want to explore these kinds of things. I am asking if there is age appropriate content online or in magazines ect
Awesome attitude mamma! Its such a hard one, I'm not sure what I would do. I mean on one hand, no matter what you do I'm sure they will find a way! And curiosity is normal..but your concerns are valid.
I was reading some research the other day that have found young teens watching orn can lead to impotency, not because of the orn itself, but more because they tend to fast forward to the "good bits".
I dont like it, but I guess parental controls might be a good idea, might just push him to find some softer stuff. But end of the day knowledge is power, explain why you are doing it, and that there's nothing wrong with him, but there are adverse affects of watching it while you are young.