Winter skin- help!

Hello sisterhood,
Hoping for some advice.

I always have the bumps and lumps on the outside of my thighs.... not really sure what that is?

Anyway in winter, my thighs feel like sandpaper 😳... not a the feeling I'd like to give my husband when we get down with it 😉
How can I get rid of it, or at least make the lumps n bumps soft 🤣🤣

Hope someone knows what I'm talking about??

Thanks all - appreciate it.