How do i move on ? Im currently in a long term abusive marriage and i no longer want to be here . Its not as easy as 'just leave " Were do i start to heal ?
How do i move on ? Im currently in a long term abusive marriage and i no longer want to be here . Its not as easy as 'just leave " Were do i start to heal ?
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you only start to heal when you leave.
you can't heal and then leave.
you remember the independent person you were prior to marriage and you take control back of your life like a single person.
you break up, work out your living arrangements and make a plan.
you also see a lawyer, to check what you're entitled to.
get your ducks in a row before you tell him,
I think you find some hobbies or some friends as step one. People saying you can’t heal until you leave probably aren’t as ridiculously broken to the point where they don’t feel that they DESERVE to leave. You need to have something in your life worth living for so you get some energy to make the calls to reach out for help.