Hi sisters, sorry for the long post and i probably know the answer to this but don't want to admit it or believe it.
I have been married for 26 years together 27, after 9 years of marriage hubby had a bad accident that left him with an aquired brain injury which has changed his personality and made him an alcoholic. He isn't physically abusive with me but he has changed so much now there really isn't a lot left of our relationship. We were best friends and did everything together, he was really romantic and we had a wonderful sex life. Now we hardly talk because we have nothing in common, he would rather drink and talk to his mates on the phone , and we only had sex 4 times last year . We are both still young, he isn't 50 yet and i miss our time. Am i going to spend the rest of my life like this?
We had so many dreams but now he doesn't want to do any of them and i feel like he has sucked all my happiness out , every long weekend he has spent fishing with mates and not with me. He works hard and deserves time to himself but where do i come in, i have no family and not really any close friends, i guess i came here just to reach out and vent and ask am i being petty in wanting time or am i just flogging a dead horse because he isn't going to change no matter how many times i speak to him about it?
I think i know my answer but any advice
I think i know my answer but any advice
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have you tried counselling, just so you can walk away knowing you have tried everything?
you only get one life and you deserve to be happy, youve stayed longer than most would x
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