Hi
So today my husband left me at home to go out drinking while very sick and needing him but this isn't the only thing that he's done there's been many narcissistic things with him and I've queried why I stay for a long time . My question is would this be a deal breaker for you ?
Should I leave husband
Should I leave husband
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When I was with my ex we organised a babysitter for my birthday to go out which was very rare for me. Then I got tonsillitis and cancelled the babysitter, he went out without me and left me home sick with 4 kids on my birthday. He even rang me at 1am to pick him up which I declined and he was angry at me for days for not picking him up! I didn't leave him over that but I should have seen that as a massive sign of how self centred he was. I wasted more years with him and went through more times with bigger signs but like a fool, I stayed too long because I always questioned whether it was me being unreasonable. It wasn't. Dont waste as much time as I did, if you feel unsupported and like you're doing everything by yourself anyway then absolutely leave.
I landed in hospital with gall stones. My partner was camping. I called my sister to come get the kids at 6am after being in extreme pain for several hours. I had no idea what caused my pain. I text my partner as I knew he was out of range. I didn't get a reply until hours later. No concern about me needing an ambulance. Didn't ask if I was ok. He was just worried about having to pack up camp early. I felt so alone. He didn't come home until really late the following day. I didn't talk to him for 2 weeks. Wouldn't even be in the same room as him for more then a few moments. When he'd come to bed, I slept on the sofa. On top of that, I had to deal with his mother's compliments that I called my sister and not her to come get the kids. My priority was my pain, and some one getting to the kids quickly.
I'm still here. I love him, he loves me, he just doesn't appreciate me, and he's a selfish pig.
I wasn’t expecting your last paragraph! I thought you were going to to write … so I left him and have found someone who loves and respects me. I’m sorry xx