My husband declared whilst drunk that whilst we were at a concert recently (which should have been romantic) he knew he should have held/hugged me but couldn’t. Went on to say that when he has moments of feeling down I make it worse as I pick up on it (I’m an empath) and I then get stressed. Funnily enough this comment echoed the words of my best friend who was living with us for 6 months after her break up. Husband was falling over himself to take her cups of coffee to her room every morning, make her overnight oats etc. they are friends but he will literally drop everything as soon as she calls for help. Now she has moved out she doesn’t message me anymore but speaks to my husband. This doesn’t look good does it?
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Do you think they are having an affair? It does sound like something is going on between them.
I think there has been an emotional affair at the least. My gut is going crazy, feeling anxious. I just have a bad feeling they are both hiding something
Trust your gut!
I don’t understand why they are going this. Like it almost seems obvious. He doesn’t ask me if I have spoke to her anymore. She doesn’t message me. It’s like a wall of silence has gone up
I think there has been an emotional affair at the least. My gut is going crazy, feeling anxious. I just have a bad feeling they are both hiding something