My husband and I have been together since we were 16 (20 years together). We were each others first. We have have 3 teenage children.
Our sex life was great before our youngest was born 11 years ago and in the last 2-3 years it has gone down hill.
We have sex maybe once every month or so. Sometimes it could be up to 3 months between.
Sometimes it’s not even sex it’s just foreplay to get me excited and then nothing else eventuates.
It gets me down as once we have been intimate we say it’s been so long let’s change and it doesn’t happen.
When we are intimate my husband never comes anymore and we stop after I’ve come. I feel like he is only doing it to get me to come.
Our marriage is great other than this issue, he works hard for our family and even has to travel sometimes for his work but I don’t suspect he is cheating.
I’m just after advice if it gets better or if we should see/talk to a professional.
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