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Does anyone else’s partner like or ♥️ react other women’s social media posts, but not yours? He used to and I don’t understand why he doesn’t now, and don’t have the courage to ask why

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage

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Anonymous

I don't react to my husband's and he doesn't to mine. It would be like me reacting to them. We're not new and dating anymore

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Anonymous

I don't react to my partners social media posts, mainly because they're about football, Call of duty or some other crap I've already heard about for a week haha.
He doesn't react to mine because I post super rarely and when I do it's usually some meme that he doesn't get 😂

I think context matters here though, I mean is he dropping ❤️s on those "hot" posts (ie, a random woman he follows posted a bikini shot)?
Or, is he just reacting to the day to day posts of women he knows personally (ie, a women he works with posted a picture of her dog and kids)?
Somewhere in there is where you're going to find the line of what's appropriate.

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Anonymous

No, he ♥️ reacted a meme a woman posted that said “keep liking my memes and we’re gonna end up like this” with a pic of suggested sex. I posted the same meme to see if he will react to it. He hasn’t been online since to see it. Can bet he will not react and if he does, he’ll have something to say about me posting it. Then I’ll be saying “but you ♥️ when xyz did it??”

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Anonymous

Did you post it so that only he can see it? Or are you damaging your own reputation just to test him instead of having a mature conversation? Sounds like him reacting to posts is just the tip of the iceberg for what is hurting your relationship

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Anonymous

No I posted it so everyone can see it. How is it damaging my reputation??
And no there’s literally nothing else I’m concerned about with our relationship.

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Anonymous

It's damaging your reputation because you're presenting yourself as someone who needs attention and isn't a trustworthy partner just to see if you can make him jealous. And if you see nothing wrong with what you are posting, then you wouldn't have a issue with him reacting to another woman posting it.

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Anonymous

agree, imagine friends and family seeing that...cringeworthy...she seems so clueless

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Anonymous

I’ve been here and it sucks. He would react to other women’s post with barely any clothes on and then when I would post a nice photo - absolutely nothing.

You need to tell him how you feel, that relationship of mine needed after he blocked me on all social media so I couldn’t see what he was doing. Turns out there were very much underlying issues of cheating and him trying to get other women’s attention.

You’re not crazy, you’re not being precious. If it were reversed how would he feel?

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