I wrote in a few days ago about my husband cheating on me with the masseur's giving him happy endings. I know they say that him cheating says more about him than me, but why did he do it? We had a good s*x life. I did everything he always wanted. I’m a little bit thick but I’m pretty enough I thought. I feel so so degraded, that he had to go pay prostitutes for sex! He paid for it with Chinese randoms! I feel so so degraded, down, unattractive, horrible, gross. I actually feel like I want to die. I literally can’t stop crying! I will never be good enough for anyone.
Why did he cheat on me?
Why did he cheat on me?
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This is who he is lovely.
This has NOTHING to do with you.
This man could be with Angelina Jolie and he would still do it.
He didn't accidentally fall in love with a co-worker, he seeks out sex workers and pays them to pleasure him.
He gets off on the power, seeing immigrants degrade themselves for money.
He gets off on it being a secret and him getting away with it.
This gives him a sick thrill.
Remember Jay Z cheated on BEYONCE, look at all the other glamorous stars it has happened to, it has nothing to do with your appearance, or your sex life, no-one is immune, it is a character flaw in THEM.
Don't you dare take his shame, it doesn't belong to you, it belongs to him.
I just read this: "If you want a man to leave just be loving and loyal, they hate that". How true is that? Some men are dumb.