Secret videoing

Anon Imperfect Mum

Secret videoing

My son brought it to my attention the other day, that he thinks his father, my husband is videoing me in the shower. I questioned my husband and he denied it. I explained that he was making our son uncomfortable and he better not be videoing me.
Fast forward to tonight, my son couldn't let the feeling go and went through the phone and he has been recording me, without my knowledge in the shower.
I have asked him to leave! Have I done the right thing or am I overreacting?

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage, Self Care

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Not overreacting at all!

This is a huge violation of trust and privacy. Not to mention the sheer disregard for consent.

Horrendous behaviour.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

It's a crime. A pretty bad one. Personally I'd have reported him to the police.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I'd be reporting it to the police, that is absolute violation of your trust and privacy. I'd be worried what else he has been recording. Glad your son stood up for you and made you aware. You certainly did the right thing, that is seriously f**cked up

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Anon Imperfect Mum

That is absolutely fucking disgusting. You 100% did the right thing. I’m so sorry this happened to you.
I hope your son is ok too. I’m sure this is alot for him to process.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

How can you be overreacting?!!
No you are not overreacting. You should be going to the police.

He filmed you while naked showering, without your consent. What is he doing with the videos? Just for him or is he sharing them.

There are so many questions

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