Feeling frustrated lost and angry.
Why is family law so unfair and how can you defend yourself from people's slander?
Going through tough times with parental agreements/ orders and one parent never being fair ever .... Also they choose to involve the children and fill their heads with rubbish thats completely untrue. In fact they'll tell anyone who'll listen lies about events that just don't happen to make themselves a victim. How do you grow from this or even get through this .... Sometimes I'm even scared to have step children in our care in case something is made up about the time spent with me ????
Which seems to consistently happen ... We were told child's bad behaviour comes from spending time with us .... Yet when children are in our care we have no problems or displine issue and children are happy and content....
Father a loving caring person that just wants to see his kids
Ex told him to leave 5 yrs ago
He's moved on and married
Now we have never ending drama involving children with no founded evidence to anything ex says ..... So upsetting???? Any help advise
Family Law fairness and how to cope
Family Law fairness and how to cope
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You just have to stay strong on your side. I have been through this and still continue to do so after over 4 years seperated from my sons father. In the beginning, it was hurtfull and stressfull to know that he was saldering me behind my back and having people support the lies. I came to realise that the people in your life that are ture to you and matter, will not fall for the slander. The others, don't matter. It's easier for me to say now because after consistent slandering, I've built inner strength. My bit of advice would be to contiune to raise the children the way you are. Don't involve them in adult matters like the other parent is. The other parent is just setting themself up to have the children lose faith in them. Children eventually see the truth. My son is nearly 5 and after his biological father filling my sons head with negative comments about myself and my husband, sadly my son is seeing that his biogical father is not a very nice person. As for family law, thats tricky. Keep track of any evidence that suggests the slander, facebook posts, msgs etc. Once you have this, it becomes a bit more important in the process and hopefully the other parent my back down and act a little bit maturely. I hope you find some helpfull advice.