Hi all. I'm in need of a family lawyer in the perth region, who is able to make video conference appointments with a client and gets shit done with little hassle.
My ex has been to every lawyer in town just so I can't go, so now I have to outsource. She has broken the previous court order and I want to see my kid. Her excuse is she doesn't need me to have shared care because she's looked after my kid all these years, but she wouldn't let me see my kid because she has a hatred for me.
This is a joke on my life and my kids are now suffering not seeing my other kid. I think the real reason she doesn't want me seeing my kid is I pay $1000 a fortnight child support for my one kid and her ex after me confided in me that she won't give me care because she wants my money. I work away so it also adds in another speed bump.
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Hi, my Mums partner is FIFO and used a great family lawyer to get access to his children. I will ask him for the name and get back to you. My mum has recently used to same lawyer after my dad withheld my younger sister and had a great result in court.
Why does she have so much hatred? It is my experience women act like this when they are deeply hurt and not supported - it is their only leverage when pushed.
So, let's ask; what is it she WANTS and NEEDS? It's frightening being a single parent... If it's money (as being a single Mum is SUPER HARD and SUPER EXPENSIVE and it impairs your ability to effectively earn a living AND be Mum, juggle is virtually impossible) then maybe you need to ask her what amount she may require (not based on what you earn but what she NEEDS) to allow her to be the best Mum she can be and live comfortably? $500 doesn't sound much to me but I believe she will be a better Mother and ex partner if you can support her financially. Maybe you could find more work or get an alternate career to allow your child the best in life.
Try it! Your money is either going to go to a solicitor or to her and your child will benefit if it is going to your ex and isn't your child your major concern as above?
Best. x