would any of you consider it "normal" for a mum to encourage her daughter to have boys sleep over, esp from as young as 10/11yo and to allow the daughter to dress in rather revealing clothing ect ( like she is 18yo or older) that's just one of many factors I struggle with, in regards of my step daughter...to me, its a form of grooming, or am I just over reacting?? Mind you the girl is now 15yo and struggles emotionaly ( she was sexualy active at 12 )
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I would allow boy/girl sleep overs at a very young age (before 8) but yeah having sleep overs with boys past that is a terrible idea! Sounds like the mum was trying to make her grow up way too fast..
It is grooming
Sexually active at 12?! Yeah, not right. This girl needs intervention before she catches a disease, falls pregnant or is assaulted/raped. Help her!
Im the one who posted this question....I want to help her and help her badly, im so torn and worried for her...due to her own actions and false accusations ( obviously she has ALOT of emotional trauma ect from emotional abuse on her mums behalf ( she never accepted the split, not even more then 10 yrs after, or after he had had other kids) we cant go near her to save her and it is honestly BY LAW out of our hands sadly.....how can I get someone to save her for us, to repair the damage her mum has done to her, she has had no bounderies, smoking a packet of 20's in under a weekend, drinking,piercings and I hear even a tattoo now, crying wolf ALOT and I dare say she has had more sexual partners then me ( she has never been "single" and each new boyfriend gets to sleep over )