Sorry for the novel..I recently had a miscarriage and I am about trying for another one.. I only found out I was 5 weeks pregnant only to miscarry a week later. My heart wants to try for another bubba straight away but my head is telling me to wait as I dont know if I could go through it again. I was only 5 weeks but still after trying for 8 months it has turned me into a mess. So my question is should I wait or try? Male imputs welcome. Thanks in advance lovely mummies/daddies
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Firstly big hugs for your loss :-( allow yourself time to grieve.
I have had multiple losses before and between my 2 kids. Every one was heartbreaking. For me I have done both, tried again straightaway and waited. I don't think there is a right answer it all depends where your head is at which only you can answer. Sorry I'm not very helpful but good luck!!
How about don't try but don't not try? But then don't take a pregnancy test for a while
my sister had a m/c and then fell pregnant in her very next cycle, apparently she was more fertile after the m/c.
when i had my m/c i was upset and had to get over the ordeal of a d&c and hospital stay etc. so my advice to you is just do as you feel. what is it that is holding you back?