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Mums - my eldest son (12) is starting boarding school this week and I’m doing it tough as the build up to the drop off gets closer. We are excited for him and the friends and opportunities this will give him and he is 100% ready to go but I’m really struggling with the grief of it all and having...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies, I’m a middle-aged woman who’s never experienced an orgasm, and I’ve recently decided it’s time to get to know my body better. I’d love your advice on the best vibrators for someone new to this journey. I’m looking for something beginner-friendly, effective, and comfortable to use. Any...
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Please share with me your healthy dinner ideas for families? I want to try be so much healthier this year but I struggle to think outside the box. Sick of salads and wraps etc. Thankyou

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This is a FAQ post. These are the most popular answers to a real question asked on The Imperfect Mum. A bit of a hard question to put into words. Lately I’m feeling like i’m now just “his wife” and “her mother” – I’m feeling like I’ve lost who I used to be. I used to be a fairly social independant woman and now I feel as though I have somehow been robbed of my independance. I have an 8 month old...
Sometimes we mums are our own worst enemy… I’m beating myself up at the moment, without any help from anyone else! (So talented right?) *rolls eyes* I was catching up with a couple of beautiful mums this morning – we had a bunch of kids between us all who were happily playing in the playground while we spoke. One of the children came up to her mum, with the usual “I’m hungry” complaint, and the...
There has been many discussions on I.M about beauty, women feeling like they are not beautiful. Women feeling like they’re not enough. And, this worries me. So, what makes you beautiful? Aesthetically you may rate as as 4 or a 10? Who knows? And yes I would be lying if I said that aesthetics don’t come into play. They do. However, I have seen really aesthetically pleasing people that are just not...
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