Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies, My husband and I have been trying to decide if we will do the whole Santa thing with our kiddo. I read an article awhile ago that stated it's bad to do Santa because it's lying to your children. I can see that. I too initially thought I wouldn't do Santa at all. I'm now reconsidering it...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My fiance and I are at out witts end. Our son is 2.5 years old and we cannot get him to sleep at night. He was a perfect sleeper until the 6 month regression and it has gotten gradually worse since then. We have a calm and consistent bedtime routine, bed, teeth, story, cuddles and bed by 7:30. He...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Just wanting to hear from parents with children diagnosed on the spectrum. It’s very obvious that our youngest child is showing a lot of behaviours associated with asd, he is 21 months old and not communicating verbally or non verbally. I’ve managed to find a speech therapist with availability and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My partner and i have a 4mth old son. While i was pregnant i brought up the subject of cots after baby outgrew the bassinette. (We have a 4baby co sleeper so still have a few months before that happens.) My partner angrily burst out with "if you bring a cot into our house i.ll burn it!" I knew he...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My MIL has always said she could breastfeed my children for me (wtf). Now we have a baby I am terrified to let her be alone with my child. What if she tries to latch him? I clearly expressed my disgust but this woman thinks it's normal because "the grandmother used to feed their grandchildren and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Even though many friends say its absolute bullshit and rude of the paediatrician, today I was told my son should be talking already at 18m and the fact that he says, mum, dad, nan, yes, no and sings a few words of nursery rhymes is not good enough? Am I a shit mother? We always read, sing songs,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey sisters! I am so curious if anyone else has noticed their babies just being particularly upset since the beginning and going into toddler hood? My baby was so colicky, like cried for the most of the day unless he was sleeping or feeding and still at 16 months is very emotional. He still needs...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello Imperfect Mums I am pregnant with twins (surprise!). We have 3 children already, all in car seats (and will be for a while). My husband is 6ft 3, I am 5ft 3, we have a German shepherd and a Husky, and we live out in the bush. Can anyone recommend a car that will fit us all that I don't have...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Toilet training child number 2 Hello sisterhood, I’m having a lot of trouble toilet training my almost three year old daughter. I’m not sure if it’s because she’s my second child and I just don’t have as much time as I did before with my son or if she’s just not ready yet. She always says she needs...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone been through court to have child's last name changed? My one year old has had no contact for months now with his father and obviously only being one he has no attachment to his last name? Father won't agree to name change. Also wondering how much financially this would cost?