Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, So this may be a little bit of a long one. I don’t really know why I’m posting. I guess just maybe some advice and a rant really. Me and partner have a decent relationship we got engaged last year we don’t argue often and when we do we are pretty good at sorting it out. However recently we are...
Anon Imperfect Mum
This will be vague because I don’t want anyone figuring out it’s me from the details. I have multiple children and met a complete Toxic red flag who was painted over but that paints come off now. It came off after he made me make late payments and get breached on my rental, it was just in my name...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Sisterhood, I am hoping someone else can relate to what I am feeling or has experienced this. When I was in school, I always felt left out. I would hear of sleepovers on the weekends with the other girls in my grade and be sad because i was not included. They all had close friendships and I was...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Mums! I have an 8 year old daughter who I think might be going through early puberty, would that be a thing? She’s growing actual boobs (yes boobs and not fat as she’s lost weight in the last 12 months), also has a huge amount of hair where I didn’t think it should be at this age. She’s also...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 12 yr wants to change her surname. Current situation with her father is not stable and I don't think this will go well. Does anyone have any experience with just using a different surname for their change rather than legally changing it? Is that possible? If so, where do I start? EDIT: This in...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Wanting to take my son to a therapist (adhd, odd and possible autism). Excuse my ignorance but what is the difference between a psychologist and a psychiatrist? Which is going to benefit him more to help him with melt downs and build friendships at school?
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi. 2.5 years ago the kids and I packed up and left our lives in Qld and moved south the NSw. Bit of a back story, kids father and I separated 2.5 years before we moved due to him showing lack of commitment to the care of the children. His support in qld my support in nsw. Both our mental health's...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey IM’s, I’m wondering what age you let your kids have their own phones? I’m trying to work out what’s normal and if I’m being unreasonable. My son is 11 and in grade 5. I told him he will get a phone when he starts high school but a lot of his mates have their own phones and message him on my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Can anyone tell me about home schooling in NSW. Is it hard to start and continue, where do you even begin? My children range in age from 17 down to 11. They all hate school and keep asking me to homeschool them. I left school at a very early age, so they take after me and I hate it, never had a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m trying to decide where to go on holidays. Our 3 eldest want to go to the Gold Coast and do the theme parks and outback spectacular. Has anyone done a Queensland holiday? Can you suggest places to stay for a large family - there will be 9 of us including a 6 month old ? Is it better to drive or...